Safe sex. It’s the foundation for a healthy and enjoyable sex life. But with a constant stream of information online and whispered advice from friends, it’s easy to get your wires crossed.
Let’s clear up some of the most common safe sex myths floating around, so you can make safe and well-informed choices when it comes to the boudoir!
Myth #1: The “Pull-Out Method” is a Reliable Birth Control Option
Wrong! This “method” is anything but reliable. Withdrawal relies on perfect timing and can easily lead to unwanted pregnancy… Not only that, but sperm can travel a short distance before ejaculation, so relying solely on withdrawal is a major risk indeed. Always wear protection!
Myth #2: Spermicide Alone is Enough to Prevent Pregnancy
Wrong! Spermicide can indeed be helpful, but it’s not foolproof. These spermicidal gels, foams, or creams can kill some sperm, but they have a relatively high failure rate, especially with inconsistent use. For maximum protection, you should consider spermicide as an added layer of defence alongside a reliable barrier method like condoms.
Myth #3: Birth Control Pills Make Condoms Unnecessary:
Wrong! The Pill is a fantastic form of birth control when taken correctly, but it doesn’t protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Condoms are the only barrier method that can effectively prevent the spread of STIs like chlamydia, gonorrhoea, and HIV. So, even though you won’t get pregnant, you may still end up contracting an STI if you are not careful.
Myth #4: You Can’t Get Pregnant if You’re on Your Period:
Wrong! While it’s far less likely, it’s still possible to get pregnant during your period, especially if your cycle is irregular or your period is shorter than usual. Sperm is hardier than you might think and can survive for several days inside your body, and ovulation can sometimes occur earlier or later than expected. So, play it safe and use contraception every time, regardless of your menstrual cycle.
Myth #5: “One Time Won’t Hurt”:
Wrong! One unprotected encounter is all it takes to contract an STI or experience an unwanted pregnancy. Every sexual encounter carries some level of risk, so responsible practices are essential.
If you find yourself in a situation without adequate protection, why not try other sexual practices? For example, using sex toys instead of opting for penetrative sex.
Beyond the Myths: Safe Sex Essentials:
Here are some key things to remember for a safe and enjoyable sex life:
- Communicate Openly: Talk openly and honestly with your partner about your sexual health, birth control preferences, and any concerns (or desires) you might have.
- Variety is the Spice of Life: Explore different barrier methods like condoms, internal condoms, or dams to find what works best for you and your partner.
- Get Tested Regularly: Regular STI screenings are crucial for maintaining sexual health. Encourage your partner(s) to get tested as well.
- Know Your Options: Consult your doctor or a sexual health clinic to discuss various birth control methods and find the best fit for your needs.
Remember: Safe sex isn’t about taking the fun out of intimacy. It’s about empowering yourself and your partner to enjoy a healthy and pleasurable sex life – without taking any unnecessary risks!